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Understanding Scorpio’s Need for Solitude within a Relationship

Understanding Scorpio’s Need for Solitude within a Relationship

The Scorpio man says “I love you” and then ignores your calls for two weeks. The Scorpio woman spills her deepest secrets and then goes ghost and acts like your increasing intimacy was just an illusion. What? How did a promising duo, suddenly become a solo?! Scorpios require extreme amounts of alone time where they withdraw from everyone into complete solitude, yet they need to bond deeply with people. Seems like a paradox, eh? Romantic mates of Scorpios find this seemingly contrasting need to attach and detach to be rather maddening. How can a sign that aches deeply for intimacy and bonding suddenly cut off contact and go underground? Pluto’s in charge, honey. Pay attention. Scorpio’s zodiac ruler, Pluto, operates a life and death cycle in all the affairs of the Scorpio. This closeness and alienation are a part of that. The cycle allows Scorpio to regenerate. It almost always follows some extreme sharing or loss that has depleted Scorpio’s emo-energy. Any time there is intense intimacy, there is...

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Why Scorpios Crave a ‘Fixed’ :  Scorpio’s Addiction to Aquarius, Leo and Taurus Love

Why Scorpios Crave a ‘Fixed’ : Scorpio’s Addiction to Aquarius, Leo and Taurus Love

The Attraction of Fixed Sign Love   In astrology, matchmakers are keen to align Scorpios with fellow water signs, such as Cancer and Pisces. Why? It’s elementary: signs in the same element form trines and have a natural easy harmony with little built-in conflict. If this sounds fab to you, you may lack strong Scorpio sensibilities. Ask yourself how many Scorpio men or Scorpio women list ease and the absence of conflict as number one lusts in a relationship? Not many. Scorpios like to entangle themselves in passionate, high-challenge and high-risk encounters; and it’s so spectacularly easy to convert tension and anger into dangerous, tempestuous passion. Does anything scream passion and struggle more than a sun sign square? (OK, Venus – Mars squares or Pluto squares might, but that’s a fixation for another day). This is where Scorpio’s primal draw to other fixed zodiac signs comes in.  It may seem deranged and self-punishing, but Scorpios are often drawn to signs that form squares (90 degree angles) or an opposition...

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Scorpio & The Mask: Hiding in Plain Sight

Scorpio & The Mask: Hiding in Plain Sight

  The Pluto energy that rules Scorpio is famous for secrecy and privacy, giving Scorpio an anxious desire to fly under the radar. Enter the Scorpio Mask. The Scorpio mask is not about being sneaky, although for less evolved Scorpios that can be the case. Masks for Scorpio are about concealing the most essential parts of self from the public so that they can be shared only with the chosen inner-circle. Scorpio men and Scorpio women do not believe that everyone has earned the right to access the real them. Scorpios do NOT exhibit themselves the way Sagittarius or Leo people do.  Scorpio exhibition is private and rare, meaning that whenever you are gifted enough to glimpse it, the experience is precious and captivating. Even if a Scorpio seems extroverted, people are often only seeing the mask Scorpio wants them to see. Yes, sometimes a mask can be a jovial persona.  Personality, accessories, clothing, alter egos, and certain physical behaviors might all be employed as masks for the Scorpio....

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Stung! How and Why a Scorpio Stings a former Lover or Friend

Stung! How and Why a Scorpio Stings a former Lover or Friend

Ahh. The Stinger. No other zodiac sign is represented by an animal with such a fatal defense mechanism. The Taurus bull has its horns, the Crab can hide within a hard shell, perhaps the Leo can rip your leg off — although they prefer repose to revenge- but the Scorpio can kill you by poisoning you from within. The inner realm of the emotions and the psyche are where a Scorpio’s sting hurts the most — by design. The Capricorn goat might want to kick you in the nuts, but Scorpio doesn’t care about inflicting physical as much as internal pain that can last much much longer. Why a Scorpio Stings Scorpios aren’t sadists. They don’t sit around dreaming up ways to cause others pain. Scorpio, however, is a sign of energy exchange. Scorpio gives more energy in a relationship than any other sign. When they like someone and merge with someone, whether friend or romantic mate, the Scorpio gives intense thought, intense loyalty, intense inspiration to improve that...

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Keep Attracting Scorpios? These Natal Chart Aspects Might be Why.

Keep Attracting Scorpios? These Natal Chart Aspects Might be Why.

While anyone can experiment in romance with Scorpio, there are certain people who draw Scorpios into their lives repeatedly.  Either they purposely seek out Scorpios or find that Scorpios are always pursuing them. There are roughly 8 factors in the natal chart that make this tendency possible. 8 Reasons why Someone  might Attract or Lust after Scorpios Most of what one attracts astrologically comes through the Venus.  There are three Venus scenarios that spark a desire for Scorpio.  1. Venus in Scorpio People born with their Venus in the sign of Scorpio are classically in sync with Scorpio’s need for an intense, all-consuming romance.  These natives — often Sagittarius people or Libra people —   are able to sense when a Scorpio is in their midst and harmonize with them rather easily. When a Scorpio Venus person meets a Scorpio, the Venus person is instantly smitten. 2. Venus in the 8th house A person with a Venus located in the 8th house of the Zodiac might find, if they...

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Scorpio — Among the LEAST common zodiac signs!

Scorpio — Among the LEAST common zodiac signs!

Turns out that finding a Scorpio is like encountering a precious, rare commodity. But lovers and exes of this much talked about sign already know that, don’t they? I was prompted to research the least common and most common astrology signs due to a Scorpio hater who derided Scorpios as being as plentiful as roaches and so pervasive that one could not avoid them. Jealousy is sad isn’t it? LOL. Well, you know what they say, there are two kinds of people in the Zodiac. Those who are Scorpios and those who hate like hell that they aren’t! Sorry, haters, birth statistics from the National Center for Health confirm we’re special. Looking at the sum total of babies born from 1995 to 2002, the month of November — the prime of Scorpio season — had the second LEAST number of births.  February babies were the absolute rarest at 2.4 million born during that 7-year period, while November babies were the second least wtih 2.53 million born. Guess that means...

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Zodiac Battle: Scorpio Women vs Gemini Women — Who’s Sexier?

Zodiac Battle: Scorpio Women vs Gemini Women — Who’s Sexier?

Hopefully this isn’t heresy, but Gemini women are some of the sexiest women in the Zodiac.  From Marilyn Monroe to Angelina Jolie, the greatest sexual icons over the years have been Gemini.  There’s an oft-told story about a woman who was so dynamic and captivating she inspired the very married King Edward  to give up the throne — and his marriage! — for her. Her name? Wallis Simpson. Her sign? Gemini. All this leads me to question who is really the sexiest woman in the Zodiac? Scorpio energy is sexual and lustful, yes — but it is also internal so that hunger doesn’t always translate into a an alluring and captivating, sexual presence. Other than Dorothy Dandridge — who set celluloid on fire playing the sexy siren in the movie “Carmen” — and Bo Derek I can’t think of any Scorpio women over the decades who have truly been feted for their sex appeal.  Of course Bo Derek has her Sun in the 8th house and 8th house suns...

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Scorpios & Forbidden Love Affairs

Scorpios & Forbidden Love Affairs

“If a Scorpio feels destined to sync with someone, nothing will stop it, certainly not some arbitrary man-made morality.” Julia Roberts. Vivian Leigh. Dorothy Dandridge. As much as these Scorpio starlets are known for their Hollywood glamour they are also known for their Scorpio love affairs with married men. With Scorpio & its ruler Pluto being associated with the 8th house — the house of other people’s property — I think it’s safe to say that O.P.P., made famous in the ’90s rap song, is a zodiac hazard. OK, Thrill. Destiny? Well, maybe just a zodiac situation Scorpios (and other 8th house types) might consciously or unconsciously find themselves in whether by personal design or happenstance. The 8th house, with its obsession for sex and psychology and the dark edges of life also involves the experience of benefiting or receiving fortune through things belonging to others. Mostly this is discussed in terms of money and inheritance, but let’s be real here, it can involve a wide range of other...

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