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Drowning in Scorpio’s Emotion? Five Survival Tips for Mates of Scorpio

Drowning in Scorpio’s Emotion? Five Survival Tips for Mates of Scorpio

“Being with a Scorpio in an emotional moment is like standing on the edge of the ocean when the high tide is coming in.”  – Leo Man So, your Scorpio fetish — triggered by all the legends, anecdotes and astro-mythology about this 8th Zodiac sign– sucked you into a Scorpio romance that you can’t quite control. You liked the intense stares, the intense attachment and, of course, the intense sex,  but the intense emotion proved too much for you..? Before you drown in the Abyss of the Affect or call it quits, here’s your lifesaver: five truths to help you navigate the emotional funnel of a Scorpio relationship. 1. Emoting is a sacrament to Scorpio.   There are many forces that move mankind: will, reason, ethics, principle, chutzpah. For Scorpio,  no influence is more motivating or highly regarded than emotion. Emotion is given a pedestal position in the Scorpio’s life — so much so that the Scorpio man or Scorpio woman might dangerously worship it. Not outrightly so as...

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Blood as a Souvenir of Love:  To Scorpio, Love is as Essential & Urgent as Blood…

Blood as a Souvenir of Love: To Scorpio, Love is as Essential & Urgent as Blood…

In astrology, Scorpio’s motto is often said to be “I desire.” While Scorpio’s urges are strong and desire is prominent in every act, a Scorpio is never satisfied with simply wanting — they must claim. It is more accurate,  then, to say the Scorpio motto is “I possess” for that is Scorpio’s goal in whatever they seek.  To possess fuels their notorious obsession, jealousy, passion and perhaps even their masterful stalking. Possessing the lover is priority number one. Scorpios  want the lover’s body, mind and soul. They want to own the lover completely. So, why not have a souvenir of this possession, of this great love? Doesn’t every great hunter have a souvenir of their greatest quarry? Scorpios can’t mount the lover’s head over the fireplace —  or rather, they shouldn’t. So, I suggest going for something even more precious.   The Rapture of Blood Besides Gothic black, the favorite color of Scorpio is dark crimson — as in … the color of fresh blood. Don’t be surprised to...

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Understanding Scorpio’s Need for Solitude within a Relationship

Understanding Scorpio’s Need for Solitude within a Relationship

The Scorpio man says “I love you” and then ignores your calls for two weeks. The Scorpio woman spills her deepest secrets and then goes ghost and acts like your increasing intimacy was just an illusion. What? How did a promising duo, suddenly become a solo?! Scorpios require extreme amounts of alone time where they withdraw from everyone into complete solitude, yet they need to bond deeply with people. Seems like a paradox, eh? Romantic mates of Scorpios find this seemingly contrasting need to attach and detach to be rather maddening. How can a sign that aches deeply for intimacy and bonding suddenly cut off contact and go underground? Pluto’s in charge, honey. Pay attention. Scorpio’s zodiac ruler, Pluto, operates a life and death cycle in all the affairs of the Scorpio. This closeness and alienation are a part of that. The cycle allows Scorpio to regenerate. It almost always follows some extreme sharing or loss that has depleted Scorpio’s emo-energy. Any time there is intense intimacy, there is...

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Why Scorpios Crave a ‘Fixed’ :  Scorpio’s Addiction to Aquarius, Leo and Taurus Love

Why Scorpios Crave a ‘Fixed’ : Scorpio’s Addiction to Aquarius, Leo and Taurus Love

The Attraction of Fixed Sign Love   In astrology, matchmakers are keen to align Scorpios with fellow water signs, such as Cancer and Pisces. Why? It’s elementary: signs in the same element form trines and have a natural easy harmony with little built-in conflict. If this sounds fab to you, you may lack strong Scorpio sensibilities. Ask yourself how many Scorpio men or Scorpio women list ease and the absence of conflict as number one lusts in a relationship? Not many. Scorpios like to entangle themselves in passionate, high-challenge and high-risk encounters; and it’s so spectacularly easy to convert tension and anger into dangerous, tempestuous passion. Does anything scream passion and struggle more than a sun sign square? (OK, Venus – Mars squares or Pluto squares might, but that’s a fixation for another day). This is where Scorpio’s primal draw to other fixed zodiac signs comes in.  It may seem deranged and self-punishing, but Scorpios are often drawn to signs that form squares (90 degree angles) or an opposition...

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Scorpio FAQs: Are Scorpios Materialistic?

Scorpio FAQs: Are Scorpios Materialistic?

Think a Scorpio girl is going to be turned on by a wad of cash and a shiny, luxury vehicle? Expect a Scorpio man to work long hours to buy his lady a mansion or a 20-carat diamond ring? Don’t be delusional. Despite a recent trend of stories citing Scorpios as hard workers with a lust for materialism and keeping up with high society, these aren’t true Scorpio traits at all. The notion that Scorpios will work hard for money and material things contradicts the ethos of Scorpio, Pluto and the 8th house. What the 8th House Says Eighth House energy and Scorpio energy are focused on emotional, abstract, psychological and mystical domains. None of these realms are physical. Those Scorpio interests are actually antipodes to materialism. The material domain is simply not an area mastered by Scorpio or even necessarily revered by Scorpio. If Scorpio attracts money it is often through other people, whether through inheritance, investing or other strategic leveraging of people for money or profit. This...

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Scorpio Traits & Anti-Traits

Scorpio Traits & Anti-Traits

Astro lore tells us that Scorpios are brilliant, sexual, confident, powerful and magnetic. Pepper that Scorpio personality profile with tales of this 8th sign of the Zodiac being deep, loyal and rebelliously exciting and we have an irresistable image that may not always jive with reality. Yes, many Scorpios are grand enough to warrant the legends that precede them. However, many can also be the polar opposite! The sign of Scorpio is the sign of the extremophile, able to exhibit diametrically opposite personalities for every realm associated with Scorpio, whether that realm is sexuality, power  or psychology. So, it’s not unusual to see Scorpios who exhibit either their legendary trait  OR the anti-trait — and possibly both — over the course of their lives.  There’s no room for in-between. Scorpios are either very intelligent or very dumb. They might be incredibly magnetic or incredibly repulsive. Scorpios can be very confident or very insecure. They can be sugary sweet or loathingly sinister. Scorpios can be very powerful or very impotent....

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Scorpio & The Mask: Hiding in Plain Sight

Scorpio & The Mask: Hiding in Plain Sight

  The Pluto energy that rules Scorpio is famous for secrecy and privacy, giving Scorpio an anxious desire to fly under the radar. Enter the Scorpio Mask. The Scorpio mask is not about being sneaky, although for less evolved Scorpios that can be the case. Masks for Scorpio are about concealing the most essential parts of self from the public so that they can be shared only with the chosen inner-circle. Scorpio men and Scorpio women do not believe that everyone has earned the right to access the real them. Scorpios do NOT exhibit themselves the way Sagittarius or Leo people do.  Scorpio exhibition is private and rare, meaning that whenever you are gifted enough to glimpse it, the experience is precious and captivating. Even if a Scorpio seems extroverted, people are often only seeing the mask Scorpio wants them to see. Yes, sometimes a mask can be a jovial persona.  Personality, accessories, clothing, alter egos, and certain physical behaviors might all be employed as masks for the Scorpio....

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Things Scorpios Love: The Valentine’s Day Gifts edition

Things Scorpios Love: The Valentine’s Day Gifts edition

Scorpios are not going to tell you what they want for a gift. So, don’t ask the typical “What do you want for Valentine’s Day?” question. This goes back to the Scorpio communication style discussed earlier: they expect lovers to intuit what’s best. Since Valentine’s Day is about falling in love and amping up the romance, it’s important to go for gifts that trigger the Scorpio’s Venus sign. If Venus is enticed, the Scorpio will hopefully fall deeper in love with you. Scorpio Gifts by Venus Sign Sun sign Scorpios in general adore sexy, provocative, highly personal gifts, but consider these characteristics of the Venus sign as well: Scorpios with Water Venus (Scorpio) — prefer emotional gestures for gifts. Scorpios with Air Venus — ( Libra)– prefer something social or a gift that makes them think. Scorpios with fire Venus— (Sagittarius)  prefer to go somewhere and do something exciting! Scorpios with Earth Venus – (Capricorn, Virgo) want a tangible keepsake or some form of commitment. Note: Scorpios NEVER have...

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