Scorpio and Gemini: Hard to Handle vs. Hard to Keep!
As rare as successful Gemini – Scorpio compatibility is, the pairing of these two signs is as wildly popular as it is aggravating. What makes Scorpio, who likes a steadfast love, fall for Gemini, who likes to rotate lovers quickly to stave off boredom? What makes Gemini, who is open and exhibitionist, become enamored with a closed-off, though fascinating, introvert? The answer? Constant mental stimulation and vigorous physical exchanges. The only thing lacking here for Scorpio is depth of emotion, unless Gemini is endowed with excess water energy. Without that, this Scorpio love match is rarely lasting.
Flirting is an art for the Gemini astrology sign and Scorpio is fascinated by anyone capable of elevating mating rituals to a high art form. These two will enjoy reviving the lost art of seduction. With Gemini, the Scorpio lover is able to interact with virtually two persons in one, since Gemini, the sign of the Twins, shifts from one persona to the next without warning, expressing anger or sadness, softness or roughness, or lust and disaffection. Not only are Gemini’s multiple personalities varied but they refuse to dwell in the middle ranges of expression, volleying from one extreme to another, providing much stimulation for Scorpio who loves psychoanalyzing every move Gemini makes. The Scorpio lover will adore this Gemini complexity while at the same time finding it maddening.
Since the Scorpio zodiac sign itself is one that embraces extreme limits, this Gemini – Scorpio love match proves potent because these two zodiac characters can dazzle and shock one other with their no-limit approach to life. Scorpio tends to languish in dark moods; while Gemini can experience melancholy it has a quicker emotional turnover rate and will cheer Scorpio up and get them mingling with the outside world.
While Gemini superficial intellect doesn’t necessarily match the brilliance of the Scorpio mind, lively debates with undercurrents of sexual tension are staples of the Gemini and Scorpio love match.
In astrology, there are two features that suggest energy is highly active and highly mobile; they are air and mutability. Gemini is an air sign that is mutable, so it is hyperactive and constantly roving. This will be too much for Scorpio, who is a fixed sign and needs to be able to pin a lover down. The Scorpio lover will grow jealous with Gemini’s constant need to socialize and flirt with new people; these behaviors will trigger Scorpio’s suspicions that Gemini is cheating (and they often are). Scorpio needs to possess in order to feel secure in love; Geminis reject the need for anyone to own or possess them.
Scorpios prefer to mate for life if they can find a trustworthy, loyal partner who keeps them fascinated. While Gemini can continually fascinate Scorpio, they will simply be too unreliable and will likely need to move on Scorpio’s affections to find the next stimulus.
The Gemini Scorpio love match comes with automatic bedroom heat. Both Scorpio and Gemini consider skilled banter and thought exploration as the most tantalizing forms of foreplay and will shift back and forth between cerebral lust for one another and the physical variety. Gemini’s high energy level will be sufficient to engage Scorpio in marathon bedroom sessions, although often Gemini will be too focused on speed whereas Scorpio sex is known for its sensuality and intensity, not speed. Scorpio will find sex with Gemini can often happen in a vacuum of emotion, leaving Scorpio deeply unsatisfied.
The Scorpio personality and Gemini personality will always find some short-term love compatibility. Whenever their minds meet, there will always be an initial red hot attraction; but that attraction can, over time, shift to mutual repulsion. Eventually, one will move one, whether it’s the Gemini in search of a new experience and a less melodramatic lover or Scorpio in search of a deep emotional bond and someone less elusive who likes being owned. Again, if Gemini has venus in the zodiac sign of Cancer or other Cancer astrology, they can give Scorpio the emotion and security needed to take this fling from temporary to a permanent, creating strong true Scorpio love compatibility.
Remember these LEGENDARY real-life, red-hot Gemini Scorpio Love Matches?
The Beautiful Scorpio Princess Grace Kelly and the dapper Gemini Prince Rainier.
Scorpio Marla Maples & ex-husband Gemini Donald Trump
I told you… Scorpio and Gemini create some unforgettable entanglements!
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