Scorpio Dating Tip #1 : Setting High Standards
If a Scorpio messes up, call them on it!
Do not ignore it or pretend it didn’t happen.
The Scorpio might get mad and go away – but don’t panic.
If the Scorpio man or Scorpio woman loves you,
they’ll be back.
If they don’t — letting them get away with bad behavior will make them love you and respect you EVEN LESS!
This phase of dating is akin to war, where the Scorpio is interested in taking and conceding territory according to what you allow.
Resist too much and they will lose interest because a Scorpio date longs to feel powerful. Be too much of a pushover and allow them to rule over you and the Scorpio will grow to loathe you — but not before they make sure you loathe yourself.
What I mean is … If you allow Scorpio to dominate so much that you make few demands and show little self-respect, they will perceive you as too weak and pathetic to deserve their time.
Even worse, some less evolved Scorpios will use your weakness to break you down and destroy you psychologically before leaving you groveling on the floor — because they can.
Strong personalities, such as Scorpios, believe the weak get what they deserve.
Remember that Prince song “Strange Relationship” where the lyrics say:
“I came to you love … I took your body,
I took the self-respect you never had.
I took you for a ride and baby I’m sorry
…but the more you love me, the more it makes me mad.”
…Um yeah, a Scorpio will cruelly consume & play you for kicks just like that unless you maintain high standards to get the treatment you deserve.
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