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Scorpio Dating Tip #14: Handle the Incidentals.

Scorpio Dating Tip #14: Handle the Incidentals.



Scorpio men and Scorpio women can be a bit lazy around the house and full of procrastination when it comes to handling daily tasks.

This in no way contradicts their reputation as being dominant people who love to be in charge.

Instead, this detachment is a result of Scorpio reserving energy only for those things about which they are deeply passionate. Scorpios do not like anything mundane, and that includes the little tasks that most people do robotically.

This behavior is most shocking to people in love with Scorpio men because they expect the Scorpio man to want to make all the reservations, balance the checking account, decide what movie to see, etc. Scorpios don’t really care about these things and this lack of interest and assertion should not be read as submissiveness, weakness, or beta personality.

Scorpios pour concentrated energy into their pet passions only and prefer not to exhaust energy on incidentals. If you try to involve them in such things, you’ll get the silent treatment while inside they rant, saying  things like this:

  • “Shut up about where to eat dinner already! Just call anywhere and make a reservation!”
  • “Peas or corn? Are you serious? Why is this a decision worthy of me?”
  • “You’re asking me should the plumber come Wednesday or Thursday? Frankly, my dear, I don’t give a f—!”

As long as Scorpios are with the ones they love doing what elates them, they are chill…. well, as chill as this super-intense sign ruled by Pluto can be!

So, if you feel you are in sync with your Scorpio’s wishes and desires, go ahead and make all the plans and put the finishing touches on the mundane obligations of a Scorpio’s life — not as master, but as helpmeet.

They’ll appreciate you for that and take the extra time to brood over what they consider more essential things.


P.S. This will not work early in a Scorpio dating relationship when Scorpio is suspicious of mate’s attempting to control them. Scorpios like to be in control and will only yield oversight of their life tasks to people who’ve already passed the trust test and prove to be no harm.

© 2011 – 2012, Synthia L. Rose. All rights reserved.

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Synthia L. Rose

Synthia L. Rose is a 9th house Scorpio with a four-planet stellium in Sagittarius. She has more than 10 years of experience as a professional journalist and six years of experience as a professional blogger. An ardent student of astrology, she has studied intuitive astrology since 2008. Synthia is obsessed with penning blogs that examine Scorpio's mystique, Plutonic personalities and the risqué, taboo 8th house life.