Scorpio Dating tip #4 : Show Some Restraint to lure Scorpio into a Chase
Despite being an innate pursuer, Scorpio is not necessarily an initiator when it come to dating, however. Because, like Taurus, they need reassurance before putting their heart on the line, a Scorpio date may wait for a love interest to flirt, show interest and initiate a connection. THEN, SCORPIO WILL ESCALATE IT. (This is the true Scorpio-style).
To get a Scorpio to chase, you might have to ironically chase a little first.
Then, and only then, is the supreme time to fall back into aloof demeanor.
Act like you’re not interested before Scorpio has the time to invest and a Scorpio will feel slighted. Once invested… Scorpio locks on their romantic interest like …no, not a missile, but a vice. Then, they can’t help but chase the target of their affections.
On some occasions, a Scorpio man (or even a Scorpio woman) may chase a love interest without provocation — but only if Scorpio feels so smitten and bold that they can’t resist and it’s worth risking a wounded heart. These occasions are rare.
In a relationship, balance aloofness with devotion. When things cool down, a little restraint can trigger Scorpio’s innate need to secure their “possession.” Yep, that would be you.
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