How to Tell if a Scorpio Man or Scorpio Woman Likes You
A Scorpio wears the face as a mask. The mask reveals neither strategy, motivation nor emotions. Even if you think Scorpios, by being curt or gruff, are wearing emotions on their sleeves, Wrong! That gruff or despondent persona is but a mask, as well. There is so much more swirling inside.
Despite their need to suppress their reactions in order to keep the outside world off guard, Scorpios cannot disguise a few telltale signs that they are SPRUNG!
Signs that a Scorpio likes you:
1. They ignore everyone else when you’re around.
Being a fixed sign, the Scorpio man or woman often acts with a fixed focus. Upon sensing a connection with a potential soul mate, a Scorpio elevates that potential soul mate above all others in the room. He or she will not make you compete for attention. You wanna talk? Scorpio is listening fully. You wanna touch? Scorpio returns that touch right back with full intention.
When you have to compete for a Scorpio’s attention, you’re in game zone — not love zone.
2. The Scorpio stares at you – almost like a psycho.
Scorpios direct their full intensity on their target. They can’t help it. Sometimes, it’s as if the Scorpio man or Scorpio woman cannot look away or pull themselves from the energy field of the attraction. If a Scorpio likes you, you will feel the X-ray power of Scorpio eyes boring into your skin.
3. The Scorpio actually utters personal information
Scorpios have a reputation of being standoffish. They don’t like small talk and they don’t warm up to people quickly. In fact, they detest lots of people. If the Scorpio is interested in getting to know you better, you’ll see the cold wall disappear. As a result, personal details will spill out, sometimes even as they are trying to hold back.
4. The Scorpio treats you like dirt and seems to HATE you with every fiber of their being.
Scorpios are bored by people who don’t provoke strong internal reactions. Only when you inspire enthusiasm or hate can you be on the verge of a possible relationship with a Scorpio man or Scorpio woman.
We’ve discussed the easy ways of knowing you’ve entered the Scorpio’s heart – by talking, staring, connecting. But, being tortured mercilessly can also be an entree into love.
Gotta problem with this? Take it up with Scorpio’s ruling planet Pluto. It’s a harsh little quasi-planet that approaches creation through destruction.
So, sometimes Scorpios create love through destruction, i.e., using a series of harsh moments to abrade you to the point of vulnerability where you can stand naked before Scorpio’s inspection. This treatment usually arises through automatic reflex because you trigger some wound or weakness in Scorpio; it is NOT a conscious manipulation.
Seems cruel, I know, but the astrology sign of Scorpio is a sign of extremes and the extremes of love and hate are interconnected.
When a Scorpio hates you … I mean really hates you, it’s almost a prelude to love.
(Unless, of course, they just hate you).
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